Self-image is the picture you have of yourself, the sort of person you believe you are.     1    . in your self-image are the     2    in which you place yourself, the roles you play and other     3    descriptors you use to identify yourself, If you tell an     4    you are a grandfather who     5    lost his wife and who does     6    work on weekends, several elements of your self-image are brought to light—the roles of grandparent, widower and conscientious     7    .
    But self-image is more than how you picture yourself; it also involves how others see you. Three types of feedback from others are     8    of how they see us: conformation, rejection, and disconfirmation. Conformation occurs when others treat you in a manner consistent with whom you believe you are.     9    . On the other hand, rejection occurs when others treat you in a manner that is inconsistent with yourself definition. Pierre Salinger was appointed senator from California but subsequently lost his first election.     10    —Their vote was inconsistent with his self-concept. The third type of feedback is disconfirmation, which occurs when others fail to respond to your notion of self by responding neutrally. A student writes what he thinks is an excellent composition, but the teacher writes no encouraging remarks. Rather than relying on how others classify you, consider how you identify yourself. The way in which you identify yourself is the best reflection of yourself-image.